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Women share men the
physical as well as the spiritual roles of life in the process of human
integration. Both men and women give much of their capabilities to the
movement of existence, the vitality of love, the creativity of
knowledge, and the spirituality of giving. Talking about women’s
morals within the mental & the behavioral spheres is long and
divergent. It seems that women are to blame for their moral
straightness and deviation through the balance they make in the
practical control over the issue of the veil, sex and in running their
life in general as if they were a devil, a curse, and an object of
seduction. Yet, the balanced
view of the real study of the present and the past human deviation,
affirms that men play the most efficient role in drawing the character
of women towards the negative moral side, so as to become objects in
men’s world rather than human beinge sharing men their life, doll they
play with rather than human beings they interact with, an object of
seduction rather than an identity with various capabilities. Anyhow, it
is needless to say that women are not merely an object of sex, and their
lives in their different faces are not dominated by sex. Unfortunately
enough, some people view women from this perspective ; they deprive them
of the right of learning, creation & participation in the process of
evolution of man’s life. A woman is a human being
by all means, the fact that obliges us to prepare her for the process of
positive human evolution. Also, men’s humanity obliges us to prepare
them for establishing a life rich with knowledge, activity and openness
to creation. Viewing the matter from the
moral perspective, we have to make a thorough study of the cooperation
between men and women in founding the basis of morals at the sexual,
social, and political levels. Deviating from the right way is the
responsibility of either of them. Both share this responsibility
especially in the action & the reaction .In this sense, we have to
reform both of them and plan for the construction of their mentality
which is supposed to be open to integration & balance rather than
exploitation, and based on the various positive values of each and not
on power & weakness. God created women from the
deep self of men and maintained affection & mercy between them. Women
have rights & duties, and if men are superior to them, they are so
because of the various organizational roles men tend to play. By creating us in this way,
God wanted us to lead a life full with affection & mercy so that the
marital experience, as a distinct human relationship, can be the
beginning of a great experience to an intimate relationship based on
mutual respect. Consequently, man is not supposed to abuse his right
and role. An ideal marital relation occurs if they accept each other
mentally and emotionally. Mutual respect & understanding help to
maintain harmony between their thinking; with affection and love, their
feelings will blend. As affection has its mental
and emotional dimensions, mercy has its intellectual & practical ones.
In the light of these facts, we can see a new woman as a female, mother
& human in both creativity & responsibility. We can also see a new man
as a male, father, and human – a man who accepts woman’s superiority and
creativity and a woman who accepts man’s creativity in what he excels. By accepting each other,
all the matter will be a competition for the sake of perfection & life.
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